These past 3 days taking care of ethan has made me truly realised what a wonderful father fendy has been. It takes a lot of patience to take care a thriving growing baby...and not to mention when ethan is feeling under the weather.
It made me realise that I have taken fendy for granted. He is indeed my pillar and rock. He has taken care of ethan while im at work for the past 10 months. He truly cherish the moments when he is with ethan and discovers a thing or two what ticks ethan off. I always jokingly tell friends that ethan attached more to the dad compared to me in which secretly to me is true. He never complains anything to me...he has never shown any resentment in anticipating the days to come in taking care of the little guy. But being his wife coming to 1 1/2 years now and his partner for the past 11 years, i can see fendy's sorrows amounting when i complained about the bills in the house, the outstanding loans and other petty things. You see, fendy has been out of work for the past 2 years. Fendy will commence work in a five star resort next week! still couln't digest this fact yet though @_@' (2 years in another 3 months to come. p/s will share the period of time during his unemployment in another story...).But being fendy, he just take things cool and as it is...although can see from his eyes. He just does not show things. And that is one of the many values that fendys blessed with.
During weekdays, fendy does the laundry and folds them neatly. When he dries the clothes, he will usually start with ethan's small tiny clothes first followed by ours. He has this habit of being neat. Being systematic. i remembered when he grumbled when i did the laundry the other day, he said that i took one whole pile of clothes and just chuck it out from the washing machine into the laundry basket. he told me that there is a way of doing it civilisely. Oh-my-husband! And another story to share is during ethan's feeding time. He does it so neatly until you could not find a trace of cerelac as compared to me. Traces of cerelac can even found on ethan's ear! and eyebrow. Sheesh...i'm just being me, the fast and uncivilised! hahaha...
Anyway, coming back to fendy's attributes, there are a lot to compliment about. Not just because he is my husband..he is indeed my friend. A friend who laughs with me, a friend who comforts me when i want him to cheer me up and a person who directly tells me off when i needed some reality check. Yes, it's fendy of course. I tell you that God is so being Him that out of the gazillion people in this universe, He made me crossed path with Fendy and the chemistry between me and fendy just clicked! The chemistry between me and him just there..poof!abracadabra! magic! it's all magical to me...it's time for bed. ethan's tossing and turning, i have to comfort that little guy. besides, tomorrow is a working day for me. ZZzzzzZZzzz people. to those who have met someone in their life, trust your instinct. hey, he might turned out to be the wrong guy, but isnt't life is all about taking risks? i know i did *_-
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